Anxiety
CBT is an evidence-based psychological therapy that can be effective in supporting people experiencing anxiety difficulties. Where appropriate, CBT may be integrated with approaches such as EMDR and/or clinical hypnotherapy to support the reduction of anxiety symptoms and help individuals develop more effective ways of managing distress.
Anxiety is a normal part of being human. It is our mind and body’s natural alarm system, helping us stay alert, focused, respond to potential danger, and prepare for challenges. However, for some people, anxiety can become more intense, frequent, or difficult to manage, beginning to affect everyday life.
When anxiety becomes overwhelming, situations, places, people, or events may start to feel threatening, even when there is no immediate danger. You may find yourself experiencing persistent worry, fear, overthinking, physical tension, panic, or a feeling that you need to stay prepared for something to go wrong.
Many people living with anxiety begin to rely on strategies that provide short-term relief but may unintentionally maintain anxiety over time. In CBT, these are often referred to as safety/ protective behaviours. They are understandable attempts to help us feel safer, such as avoiding certain situations, seeking reassurance, checking, over-preparing, or trying to reduce uncertainty.
Together, we can explore how anxiety affects you as an individual — including your thoughts, emotions, physical sensations, triggers, and coping patterns. By developing a clearer understanding of what is happening and what may be maintaining anxiety, we can work towards building more helpful responses and increasing your confidence in managing difficult situations.
Anxiety can develop for many different reasons. For some people, it may be connected to childhood experiences, past difficulties, trauma, stressful life events, or patterns that have developed over time. For others, anxiety may emerge during periods of increased pressure, change, uncertainty, or significant life transitions.
The way we work together will be tailored to your individual experiences and needs. Therapy may involve learning practical strategies to manage anxiety symptoms, exploring the thoughts and beliefs that influence anxiety, developing emotional awareness, and gradually building confidence in facing situations that feel difficult.
Where anxiety is linked to traumatic experiences, distressing memories, or specific events, approaches such as EMDR may be considered as part of therapy. EMDR can support the processing of distressing experiences and help reduce the emotional intensity connected to them. The suitability of any approach will always be explored collaboratively, ensuring therapy progresses at a pace that feels safe and appropriate for you.
At ISC Therapy, I support people experiencing a range of anxiety difficulties, helping them understand their experiences, develop effective coping strategies, and regain a greater sense of confidence, safety, and control.
Below you will find some of the specific anxiety presentations I work with. If you do not see your experience listed, please get in touch so we can explore how I may be able to support you.
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Some people feel deeply worried or self-conscious about how they appear or are perceived by others. This can trigger physical responses such as blushing, hot flushes, a racing heart, and feelings of anxiety. These sensations are often accompanied by persistent, worrying thoughts about oneself or what others might be thinking.
Together, we can begin to explore what’s going on for you, identify the thoughts that come up, and work towards building your confidence in these situations
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Holidays are meant to feel relaxing and exciting, but for some, they can bring quite the opposite experience. Just the thought of flying can trigger intense anxiety—whether due to past experiences, distressing news stories, or persistent fearful thoughts. Some people manage their nerves with a pre-flight drink, while others may rely on medication, travel companions, or avoid flying altogether.
Together, we’ll work to understand what’s happening for you right now and focus on preparing you to fly with confidence & ease, so you can finally enjoy the travel experience you deserve
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Whether it’s climbing a ladder, standing atop a tall building for work, or scaling a hill or mountain on an adventure, feeling frightened or anxious in these situations is completely understandable. Even just thinking about them can trigger intense anxiety, making it feel easier to cancel plans or avoid them altogether. But now, you're looking for a positive change, hoping to feel calm and confident when you're up high.
Together, we’ll explore what’s fueling this fear and support you on the journey to reach the top with confidence.
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Getting into a car, especially for the first time, can feel incredibly daunting. This anxiety can affect newly qualified drivers, beginners, or those who’ve experienced an accident. For some, the thought of driving alone, navigating busy roads or motorways, being a passenger, or the fear of crashing can trigger overwhelming worry. As a result, you might avoid driving altogether, rely on public transport or others for lifts, or try repeatedly to drive but feel held back by intense anxiety.
Together, we’ll take things at a pace that feels right for you, gradually building your confidence behind the wheel. We’ll also explore and gently challenge the thoughts that are making driving feel so difficult for you. We support you moving towards a more relaxed and empowering driving experience
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Activities like going for a walk, cleaning, decorating, or gardening can often feel relaxing and enjoyable. However, for some, these moments are overshadowed by the worry of encountering a spider, cat, dog, or another animal. Even just the thought or image of one can trigger intense anxiety, whether it stems from childhood experiences, a frightening event, or a general fear. This can lead to strong reactions such as shivering, jumping, screaming, shouting, crying, or feeling completely overwhelmed. It’s only natural to start avoiding situations where these animals might appear. The fear feels very real, and it can be difficult when others don’t fully understand or relate.
I understand the stress and anxiety this brings you. Together, we’ll work on gently reducing that anxiety and gradually building your comfort and confidence in their presence.
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The moment of being the center of attention can be, for some, a very scary place to be in. The thought and image of feeling judged, people looking at you, air drop silence, accompanied by worrying thoughts. All in all can bring on a response in the mind/body of bright redness, sweats, tremors, blank thoughts, and intense feelings.
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Inderveer Chonk (Indy) | CBT Therapist in Ealing | West London | ISC Therapy